‘AskGayBros’ subreddit, the man said, “My bf and I have been together for 14 years. At the beginning of our relationship we used to have sex (from the back door) 3 times a day – MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP.
Now we only have oral sex…every few weeks. I love him to death. Now I am the one who initiates our ‘love time’ almost every time.
Just want to know if this is normal?”Many men were happy to share their own experiences (even if the definition of ‘long-term’ was somewhat subjective).Subscribe to our newsletter for a refreshing cocktail (or mocktail) of LGBTQ+ entertainment and pop culture, served up with a side of eye-candy.“After 9 years we do it 1-2 times a week and daily when on vacation,” was one well-liked response.“Been together 5 years.
About once a week,” offered another. “We aren’t super sexual but still have fun when we do it! Your normal is your normal. As long as you’re happy that’s fine!”Another also said that once a week was just fine.“Six years together and once a week.