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WORDS BY BETH ASHLEY HEADER DESIGN BY ANISA CLEAVER Much like scissoring, the almighty strap-on is such an iconic symbol of queerness that even if you’ve never used one before, chances are, you’ve seen one in a film or joked about them with your friends before.

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