Lights on or off when hooking up? Gay guys illuminate us with their preferences
a recent r/gay thread, with a few favoring complete darkness, many wanting mood lighting, and many more wanting full brightness… if not floodlights! Here are comments from the thread:Subscribe to our newsletter for a refreshing cocktail (or mocktail) of LGBTQ+ entertainment and pop culture, served up with a side of eye-candy.“Off, please.”“Off.
But I should be able to see. When your eyes sense less, other senses become more intensified.”And in response: “You know what’s interesting is, I’m very much a lights-on guy, but I like being blindfolded for the exact reason you say.
So maybe I’m an all or nothing guy!”“Soft lights forever—enough dark to be intimate but enough light to see the splendid body of my partner.
Well, if I had a partner, lol.”“I’m old-fashioned and stick with the scented candles method. Or maybe the light from our fireplace if we’re doing it in the living room.”“A candle is nice.”“15 percent lighting is what we tend to set our bedroom to.
