“Locktober” has me obsessed with chastity cages. Will locking myself up set me free?
Hi Jake,I have a friend who is big into the BDSM scene, and he recently told me he’s been observing the month of “Locktober”.
At first, I thought he was kidding. But when he started explaining it to me, my curiosity was peaked.He says being locked up by a keyholder leaves him feeling totally free, because being “locked” gives him the ability to “surrender.” He also says he likes carrying this dirty little secret everywhere he goes, whether it be walking the aisles of Trader Joe’s, or going about his usual gym routine.Initially, I couldn’t imagine giving my power away to someone else for an entire month, not to mention being confined for that long, but then I started wonder if I’m missing out on a chance to actually free myself in some way?
Should I give it a try for the rest of the month, as a trial run for “Locktober 2024”, or will locking myself up just be utter hell?Locked Out of HeavenDear Locked Out of Heaven,It spooky season, but if saying goodbye to your mighty member for 31 days seems more frightening than the local haunted corn maze, then “Locktober” might not be your jam.
But believe it or not, a fair share of gay men are enjoying the kink that comes along with giving up control.By wearing a chastity device, guys are enclosing their genitals in an inescapable cage which will prevent erections, masturbation, and penetration.
