AskGayBros’ subreddit, someone asked for “some quotes that a dude has said to you in the middle of hooking up that just killed the mood for you.”Subscribe to our newsletter for a refreshing cocktail (or mocktail) of LGBTQ+ entertainment and pop culture, served up with a side of eye-candy.The answers given were diverse, but some similarities emerged.
For example, it can be off-putting if your sexual partner suddenly offers some uncalled-for physical criticism.Lines such as “Is that your dick?” or “You got fatter since I last saw you” did not land well with two of the respondents.
Similarly, questioning someone’s mental health or attributes (“Are you autistic?”), are also passion killers. On other occasions, hookups can sometimes blindside you with unexpected requests or terms of endearment. “It’s usually when they call me ‘daddy’ like mf that’s not who I’m tryna think of rn,” said one guy.
Lots of guys mentioned the whole “daddy” thing. Either they felt they were too young to be seen as a daddy, or someone asked them inappropriate questions about their relationship with the father or family members. “Worst ever for me was ‘Can you call me Sally, and start choking me?’,” said another.