Help! My partner & I decided to open up our relationship, but we can’t agree on our third
Hi Jake,My partner and I have been talking about bringing a third person into the bedroom for a while. We hit our five year mark recently and decided to finally give it a try.
Both of us were excited, as it seemed like the next logical step in our sex life as a couple. You wouldn’t think it would be that complicated, except apparently we both have completely different ideas about who this guest should be.
He likes more nerdy, talkative, twink types, and I’m more into brooding, mysterious, “manly” men.Subscribe to our daily newsletter for a refreshing cocktail (or mocktail) of LGBTQ+ entertainment and pop culture, served up with a side of eye-candy.Anyway, we’ve talked about the various people we know in our lives who might be good candidates to approach, but every time I suggest someone, he is vehemently against him, and vice versa.Last weekend, we decided to go out to the bars and point out guys we both might be into.
Every time I pointed to someone, he’d “veto” my pick, and when he’d suggest someone, I had no interest in his choice either.
