GCN Issue 378 by James O’Hagan about being overweight and how fat people get viewed, condemned, anathematised and ridiculed both within and outside the LGBTQ+ community.
The fact seems to be that there are really only two mortal sins in modern society, particularly in gay society: getting fat and getting old.
To some extent the two run parallel. However, all is not necessarily lost; if you go to a ‘Bear’ club or pub you will see evidence of these parallel worlds working together, except that it’s in a very positive light.
There, conventional gay beauty and body standards are challenged, providing an empowering space for members of the community.You may well ask, “What on earth is a Bear club?” Well, it is a queer club that the larger, hairier men, and their admirers, frequent.