I’m turning 50 & I’m curious about being with a woman for the first time. Am I having a mid-life crisis?
Hi Jake,I’m about to turn 50 and have started taking stock of my life. One thing that’s coming up is that I’ve been out and proud my whole life (I’m actually one of those “gold-star gays”), and even though I’ve tried lots of wild and crazy things in the bedroom over the years, I’ve never actually been with a woman. I know it sounds crazy, but I think I’m more curious and open to bisexuality that than I ever realized. I casually mentioned it to my husband, since we have an open relationship, but he immediately shut down any idea of bringing a woman into the bedroom.
It’s totally not his thing, and I get that.Subscribe to our newsletter for a refreshing cocktail (or mocktail) of LGBTQ+ entertainment and pop culture, served up with a side of eye-candy.Am I having some sort of mid-life crisis?
Will these thoughts and feelings pass? Or was I simply brainwashed into thinking I was gay my whole life, when I’m actually more fluid?Wishing on a (Gold) Star,Dear Wishing on a (Gold) Star,It’s never a bad time to do a little “life review”, whether you’re turning 40, 50,… or it’s just a random Friday.
Contemplating on your journey thus far can help you bring awareness not only to the many experiences you’ve had in life, so you can integrate them in a meaningful way, but also shine a light on things you still want to do while you have the chance.
