5 tips for what to do if you start crushing on someone other than your boyfriend
A therapist has gone viral with his advice for anyone who finds themselves developing a crush on someone who isn’t their partner.Jeff Guenther is based in Portland, Oregon.
Besides running a successful private practice, he’s been posting snappy, one-minute videos offering guidance on everything from managing anxiety to why some people cheat on those they love.A video he posted a couple of weeks ago has now notched up over 1.4 million views.
In it, he discusses what you can do if you find yourself crushing on someone outside of your relationship.Guenther clarifies that the advice is aimed at those in monogamous relationships.
Presumably, those in open relationships may feel freer to pursue their crush in some way.First up, he says to try and chill out about it: “Do nothing … Crushes come and go”.
