story with Reddit's Am I the A******? (also known as the "AITA" forum), user u/Pleasant_Setting7100 explained that he was raised in a "very conservative household.""My parents and my older brother 'Max' all hold extreme, bigoted views," the 34-year-old wrote in the lengthy post. "I'm gay, so that was hard on me growing up."In his 20s, Pleasant_Setting7100's grandfather died and left him a large inheritance.
He used the money for a down payment on a house in another part of the country, and decided the move was a good time to come out to his family."They reacted horribly, saying I was going to rot in hell and that I was dead to them," he said.In the years since, the poster has landed a great job and met the love of his life, his 35-year-old husband Jonah.
A month ago, he received a message from his 38-year-old brother Max, explaining that he had lost his job and that his family—his wife Dani and their two kids—were about to be evicted from their home.
As their parents now live in an assisted living facility, Pleasant_Setting7100 is their only option."My first instinct was to say no, but when I told Jonah, he said we should give them a chance because Max could've changed and he doesn't want the kids to be homeless," he continued.So, the poster agreed on two conditions: That Max does not mention politics or disrespect him or Jonah."I told Max that if they break the rules, he and his family would be out.