Hi Jake, Let me start by saying that I’ve never written a letter like this to a website, but I knew about this column and something so utterly “cray” happened in my weird, gay life that I felt like I had no choice but to reach out. So, I’ve been seeing a guy for two months now.
We met initially on Grindr for a casual hookup earlier this summer, and quickly that evolved into a relationship. However, last weekend, he introduced me to his parents.
To my horror, I noticed upon laying eyes on his father that I had hooked up with him once three years ago, before even knowing his son.
My sense was the father in question didn’t recognize me until the end of the meeting, but said nothing. I am now very conflicted about what to do.