Gay guys pinpoint the “best years” of their lives
AskGayMenOver30’. “When was/is your best years? How old were you at the time? And why was it/is it so great?”He went on to say he was currently experiencing what he felt was his best time.
He put this down to feeling, “much more secure, mature, and stable both in terms of financial resources and in personal relationships.”Technically, it’s probably not a question many can answer definitively until they reach the end of their lives.
However, many had thoughts and insights.Like the man asking the question, the vast majority felt they were living their best times in the present.“I’m 49 and my life has been getting better all along,” was one well-liked response. “It’s reached a point where in the last couple of years I stand in front of my bathroom mirror and genuinely like the guy staring back at me. “It’s hard to explain, but I feel like a whole, complete man.
I know where I’ve come from, my feet are firmly on the ground, I know what I want, I know what direction I’m going in, and I know it’s a good one.”Another man, in his early 60s, said things had improved because he navigated the ups and downs better.
