I’m really into this new guy, but his apartment grosses me out. What do I do?
Hi Jake,I’m super into this new guy. We met on our gay pickleball league and I was instantly attracted to him.
We vibed really well. He’s smart, sexy, witty, funny. The whole package!Or, so I thought…Subscribe to our newsletter for a refreshing cocktail (or mocktail) of LGBTQ+ entertainment and pop culture, served up with a side of eye-candy.On our fourth date, we went back to his apartment afterwards.
Let’s just say it was less than… swanky. I’m not really a snob about money, but this place was a disaster zone. There were dirty clothes everywhere, dishes all over the counter, and clutter everywhere. But the worst of it was the smell.
He had an aquarium and it reeked like the water hadn’t been changed in months.He wanted me to spend the night, but I was so grossed out I made up a lie that I had to get up really early the next morning for a work meeting. I’ve never encountered this before.
