Hey Jake,Happily married 30-something gay guy here, dealing with a not-so-happy in-law situation. For the most part, I like my husband’s family.
They are accepting and supportive, and we all get along well. Except for my sister-in-law. She’s eight years older than me and honestly kind of weird. On more than one occasion now she has asked me whether I’m a top or a bottom.
She seems fascinated with knowing, and I’m not sure why. I’ve never answered because…1) I don’t think it’s any of her business and 2) My husband is her younger brother.
If I answered, I’d also be sharing private information about his sex life, which I don’t understand why she wants to know about that anyway!?!?I’ve told her before that I’m not comfortable discussing my bedroom preferences with her, but it’s almost like she’s made it her life’s mission to find out.