This guy’s laundry list of “dating-nots” is going viral because the internalized homophobia is *real*
Twitter X user @13tslover encountered a man with a laundry-list of “You should *not* go out with me if”s on Hinge, he did what any self-respecting gay would do.He shared a screenshot on social media to put this potential suitor’s red flags on blast.???
pic.twitter.com/xPuOmn4VM7The unnamed man’s profile said he is not interesting in dating any LGBTQ+ guy who is “into gay events/spaces (fire island, gay bars, gay orgs),” wears “non-traditional male/gender neutral clothing,” paints their nails, or has “had a history of non-monogamy.” Oop, watch out queen!
Your internalized homophobia is showing.The tweet, which has received over 275,000 views and 1,300 likes as of this writing, attracted an outpouring of responses from other users who pointed out how a distaste for traditionally gay things is, well, kind of anti-gay.The definition of internalized homophobia and unresolved trauma.
