Heartstopper. Exhausting, right? Perhaps the last thing you want to think about at that point is negotiating if, when, and how to have sex with your boyfriend or husband.
Wouldn’t it be easier if all of those decisions were made for you, and you could just surrender to whatever happens to you sexually, without being responsible for anything?
If “yes”, you may be into the “free use” fetish, sweeping the gay community as we speak. A “free use” fetish is the desire to be sexually “used” by a partner anytime, anywhere.
Say, whaaat?Before you let out the gay gasp, note that “free use” is an arrangement between two consenting adults. There’s nothing illegal happening here.